I would bet you are in 6th or 7th. When you switch over to manual mode, the vehicle automatically drops to 5th no matter your speed. Watch the tach next time you do this.
Mine was also getting 11-13 in mostly city driving early on. On a road trip with less than 3k miles on it, it averaged only 16mpg. I was flying along and averaging 70mph or so but still I was contemplating the tradein value I would get after only 2 months of ownership.
I'm happy to say that now with 13k miles on it, I did a similar long distance hike at high speed and averaged 21mpg (while climbing and descending some moutain passes).
I really just wish the tank was bigger. The mileage doesn't bother me so much as the range anxiety.