I am going through this nightmare myself on a 2012 QX56. For sure that cam needs to be replaced as it will just grind down the bottom of the new lift bucket. However, getting the timing cover off is not a $250 job... The replacement cam alone is $300 new BUT the real challenge is the labor involved. You have to remove all engine from dress, drop the oil pan (which means removing the front axle and steering gear in a 4WD QX) and then you can actually remove the front cover. My situation turned worse as once i got into the engine I noticed the crankshaft seems to be binding and will not rotate freely and the bank 2 intake cam spins freely like the valves are bent and not keeping pressure on the cam. My current working theory is the fuel pump lift bucket disintegrated and broken pieces caused the timing chain to skip a tooth or two causing the bent valves. However, not sure how to confirm the bent values without pulling the heads and just a little too pissed to look at it right now... As to why the crank won't turnover by hand - other theories are welcome!
Betzgb,
I actually replaced pretty much everything after opening the timing cover.....
I replaced the following:
Bank 2 Oil Jet - part# 13081-AR000
$ 14.74 (InfinitiPartsDeal.com)
The oil jet has a couple of Verrrry tiny holes on it that allow oil to be directed to the timing chain and upon inspection, were clogged, thus preventing oil to the chain. Replaced for less than $ 15
High pressure pump camshaft assy-
Infiniti part# 13020-5ZM0E
$ 298.87 (InfinitiPartsDeal.com)
Timing cover filter assy
Infiniti part# 15200-EY00A
$ 93.18 (Southwest Houston Infiniti)
Timing chain guide (broken "bucket" fragments broke (1) guide
Infiniti part# 13085-1LA2A
Clear Lake (Houston) Infiniti
$ 28.79
Oil Jet Removal and Install tools
Jig-Oil Timing Infiniti Part# 13081-1LA0B
$ 100.00 total to remove oil jet
Infiniti PartsDeal.com
I also replaced all of the O-rings for the timing cover (I think a total of 6 or 7) total cost from Infiniti $ 200.00 (they were in stock and readily available...if I had to do it again I would have ordered from InfinitiPartsDeal.com and waited the 2-3 days to receive them as it would have been less than $ 50
Unfortunately my timing cover was damaged at the top portion where the high pressure pump mounts. The broken lifter-valve "bucket" fragments gouged the inner walls where the "bucket" rides, therefore creating excessive wear on the bucket. I was able to find a used timing cover in Canada "Doug's Auto Parts gor $ 139.36 USD..... waiting 7 days to receive....better than the $ 700 plus new from Infiniti.
With your situation for labor costs and amount of damage and possible additional damage if I were in your situation I would simply replace engine for $ 4k..... check Car-Part.com for engine prices or eBay....Call Danny at Nissan Unlimited in Houston, (832) 467-4400, ask for Danny or William, he is great to work with as he has provided me with good parts and prices for years for my Q45, M45, Qx56 and now my M56.